Muslims: marriage and youth.....?

In Islam there is no force to get married against your will,if your not ready for marriage you are allowed to refuse and no one has the right to make you.You can refute them with the Islamic ruling that no force is allowed in MARRIAGE,and that you have to be stable enough to provide all the rights for your spouse.And when you are ready you will clearly let them know.Be respectful,but do not allow anyone to push you into something you do not want.